Best Business Bobs

I am honored to be on Jeremy Nulik's list of Best Business Bobs, but troubled to listed right below Bob Knight -- yes, he is the most winning college coach ever (in terms of number of games), but he seems to qualify as a certified asshole (see Pam Slim's post).  Read Season in the Brink if you don't believe me -- also look at this tape, it sure looks like he is choking a player to me (If you choked a subordinate, would they let you keep your job?) 

Back to the Bobs, it is such a meaningless name that I often don't turn my head when I hear the name. And one of the weirdest Bob things that ever happened to me was when, a long time ago, I was at a think tank (pre-Internet!) called The Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences, a lovely place where we didn't even have phones in our offices. In my little building, there were six offices, a telephone room, and a bathroom. When a call came in,you would be buzzed to go to the phone room.  One day I as buzzed, and asked to give a talk at something called The Food Research Institute at Stanford (now defunct).  The day I got there to give the talk, I noticed that there was someone else's name on the door -- another Bob! They had meant to invite one of the other Bob's (four of the six of us in this little building were named some variation of Robert).  I can't recall the right Bob's name, but he studied food production and consumption in developing countries. They suggested I give my talk anyway (which was on the stigma of bankruptcy), but within about 10 minutes, the 30 or so people in the room dwindled to 8 or 10.

It is easy to be the wrong Bob.

P.S. Check out the Mistake Bank, following John's comment below. It funny and apparently devoted to the notion that failure sucks but instructs!

Comments

[Jeremy Nulik]

Bob -

I love your story of mistaken Bobness. It is almost like they were happy to have any Bob.

I did realize the irony in placing you on a list with Bobby Knight. I hope that you saw that I made note of it in the blog. And I want you to know the list was not in any particular order...so you are not less of a Best Bob than Knight.

I guess that I have found in my trudging through a life full of assholes that they do sometimes have good things to offer the world. Underneath that exterior is often something of value. I would site chapter 6 of your book: The Virutes of Assholes, but I am sure you are quite familiar. :)

Thanks for your inspiration and all that you put into the world.

It was my hope that the list truly was an honor to what you do.

-Jeremy

[LR]

Be honored to be next to Bob Knight--one of that nations true leaders in developing young men.

[John Caddell]

Bob, I love this story! I have a noncommercial site called The Mistake Bank (http://mistakebank.com) a learning site where people share stories of mistakes in their businesses and careers. I also post stories I find elsewhere... which leads to a question:

would you mind if I reposted this story on The Mistake Bank (with attribution, of course)?

thanks and regards, John